Luke 14:1, 7-14
Are any of you here
today people watchers? I rarely get the chance to people watch with three kids
to keep up with, but it is something I enjoy. I enjoy thinking about what these
individuals or groups might be doing. Where are they going? What are they celebrating?
Sometimes I even come up with elaborate stories as to what has happened in that
day to lead them to wherever we happen to be. People watching is a great way to
keep your mind occupied and to be entertained.
Our lesson today starts
out saying that the Pharisees were watching Jesus. Not only are they watching
Jesus, they are watching him closely. There watching is not for entertainment
purposes. They are watching to see what Jesus will say, who he will interact
with, what he might do and when so that they can see just what kind of teacher
is this man from Galilee.
Often we think of the
Pharisees as being anti-Jesus, but in the Gospel of Luke they seem to be balancing
the role of inquisitive and offended. It is the Pharisees in Luke that warn
Jesus to stay away from Jerusalem because people are planning to kill him. It
is the Pharisees who invite Jesus to fancy meals and dinner parties. They are
curious about him, and watch closely to learn more.
Jesus is a people
watcher in his own right. Not for entertainment purposes. “Jesus’ watching is
all about noticing people in order to heal, teach, saved and enlist into
kingdom work. His close watching is about awareness like a parent in a crowded
park, not a security guard behind a monitor."[i]
On the way to this
wedding feast, held by the way on the Sabbath, Jesus sees a man with dropsy and
heals him. Even on his way to other events Jesus takes the time to really encounter
those around him.
When Jesus arrives at
the party he surveys the landscape he watches people as they weigh where they
should sit and how they should act. It’s a tension that most of us can understand.
Perhaps not in our current fancy wedding culture, as most weddings concerned
about seating have place cards or at the minimum reserved seating for the
families of the bride and groom. If this particular place does not cause us
social anxiety, I think most of us can relate to another place where seating is
important. The school lunch room. Not so much in elementary school, where you
sit with your class, but perhaps in middle or high school where you are finally
given the freedom to sit with anyone you like. In theory.
Imagine walking into
the school cafeteria for the very first time and knowing you are going to have
to pick where you sit very carefully. Too close to the super popular kids and
people might think you are trying to use their social currency. TO far away from
the hubbub and you might seem to think you don’t belong at all.
Like a scene from the
movie mean girls, you scan each table trying to figure out who you should sit
with and pray you don’t make the wrong choice.
Jesus was like a new
kid in class at this event. Likely this Pharisee always invited a similar guest
list to whatever functions he gave. There were family, close friends, and those
of influence. These were most often people of the same social stature, or rich
neighbors who could improve your standing. They were so practiced and knowing
where they stood in a group that they almost instinctively went to their place
for a meal. By looking around the room Mr. Williams knew he could sit above Mr.
Fitzgerald, but not above Mr. Hohenwald. Mr. Hohenwald could sit close to the
host, but had to leave room for the governor. Mr. Fitzgerald hoped and prayed
that Mr. Green had been invited so that he wasn’t at the end of the table once
more.
The guests may be
mentally sorting themselves but Jesus is new to the situation and he’s seeing
what they don’t see. Jesus is seeing how this turmoil of where to sit is
completely beside the point. Jesus is watching these men turn themselves inside
out for the right seat at the table without realizing a very They are all
invited guests.
He turns to them and
tells a story about guests at a wedding. He talks about worrying about where to
sit, how to act. I wonder what was going through their heads at that moment. I’d
guess a mix of “Who does he think he is?” and “How did he know what I was
thinking?” Then he talks about taking a higher seat and being humiliated, so
better to take a lower seat and be lifted up.
This wisdom comes from
Proverbs 25, words from Solomon himself, no doubt familiar to these men. It is
good to not place yourself too highly in the face of a noble. Good practical
advice. After all, one could lose their head for coming before a king
uninvited.
I imagine there were
some nods around the table, thinking this was good sound advice. But I think most of them still missed the
message. Jesus turned then to the host and said “When you throw a party don’t
invite the expected crowd. Your family and rich neighbors. Instead invite the
poor and lame, those who will never be able to pay your back or increase your
social standing.”
I imagine there was
shock at this statement. Why give a party at all if it wasn’t going to increase
your social standing? Where you sat at a meal and whom you sat with were extremely
important things in Biblical times. I can imagine that the host was shocked and
offended at these words from Jesus. But Jesus was making a very important
point.
Jesus says when you are
invited. Jesus says when you have a party, invite. Invited. That means you are
expected. That means that you will have a place. It does not matter one bit
How low you sit at the
table, what matters is that you are invited! You are there to celebrate and
there will be room at the table. Too often we can get caught up in where our
place is, instead of rejoicing that we have a place at all.
This passage is about
being stewards of God’s grace by making room at the banquet for everyone. We
get caught up in this higher lower talk. This is not making yourself less and
putting others above you so that they now control you. This is much more like
Isaiah 40:4 “Every valley shall be lifted, every mountain and hill made low;
the rough ground shall become level, the rugged places a plain.”
This is a leveling of
sorts. It’s not a switching of elevations, its realizing that we are all on the
same plain in God’s kingdom.
And this doesn’t just
apply to meal times. This teaching of Jesus’ is about how we treat one another
all of the time, especially those who are not in a position to “pay us back.”
Jesus is calling us to the kind of people watching he does. Watching with eyes
not of judgement or for entertainment. Watching to share God’s grace across boundaries
that we may not even realize are there.
Ronald Byars says “From
one society to another, and from one era to another, there seem to be different
lists of those from whom respectable people expect to turn aside. Jesus’ challenge
reaches across boundaries of place and time, calling us to be more aware of
those from whom we are inclined to turn our eyes, and to follow him rather than
those who baptize common prejudices as virtues.”[ii]
Who are we watching, my
friends? Who are we noticing? To what are we paying attention? And perhaps most
important of all, what are we doing in light of what we see?
Dr. Martin Luther King,
Jr said “Our goal is to create a beloved community and this will require a qualitative
change in our souls as well as a qualitative change in our lives.”
Are we willing to make
those changes? To participate in a leveling of the field so that the beloved
community, the kingdom of God, might be as we pray, here on earth as it is in
heaven?
May it be so, friends,
may it be so.
